NOT
EXACTLY BUSINESS AS USUAL
C.J. Hayden, MCC
In the wake of disasters like the Sept.
11th attack on the World Trade Center and Hurricane Katrina, there are
many question marks in the air. When a tragedy strikes, I hear clients, students, colleagues, and
the people from around the world who correspond with me asking many things, of themselves and others.
"How
can I help?" is one common question. "What will this economic
downturn mean for my business?" is another. I also hear
people asking, "Is what I am doing really meaningful? After
all, if I don't know that I'll be alive tomorrow, is this
work where I truly want so many of my waking hours to be
spent?"
It
all adds up to a time of doubt, rethinking, even total
confusion about where you are headed and what to do next.
For
me, what uncertain times require is the assurance that only
comes from being firmly grounded in your personal values
and a sense of purpose. What does that have to do with
marketing your business, you might ask? I think it has everything
to do with it.
If
you want to sell someone else on something, you had
better believe in it 100%. If you're having doubts; if
you're no longer sure that the business you are in is the right
one to be in, how can you possibly be sincere in your marketing?
We've
all been sold to by an inauthentic salesperson -- and hated
the experience. As an independent consultant or professional,
what you are selling is you. You HAVE to believe
in yourself or no one else will. If you find
yourself now in a place of questioning, perhaps it's the time
to better align what you do for a living with what you want
to do for a life.
So
many people have told me lately that they want to be of service
in some way. I don't think there is any more powerful
way to be of service than to earn one's living at it.
Why? Because it's where your vocation meets your avocation,
your labor intersects with your values, and the purpose
of your day joins with your purpose for being alive.
This
is the concept of right livelihood, well known to
Buddhist teachers and modern writers such as Marsha Sinetar, who
describes it as work "consciously chosen." She also assures
us that it doesn't have to mean vows of poverty.
Here's
what I know. My own work is consciously chosen to honor
some of my highest values: being of service, creative expression,
human connection, and independence. Until I found
this work over fifteen years ago, I wandered from one career
and business enterprise to the next, with minimal success
at any of them. Marketing was always a struggle. I was
afraid to do it and procrastinated to avoid it.
When
everything turned around for me was the moment I declared
I would start a business that honored my values. As soon
as I did this, marketing became effortless, and more than
that, overwhelmingly successful. I could speak authentically
about my belief in what I was doing, and people
I had never met suddenly believed in me.
Some
of you reading this are working in a business you don't believe
in. My prescription for you is simple: get out, and find
something else. You want a competitive edge in a tight marketplace?
Finding and following your right livelihood will
give it to you. (I'm speaking from experience -- the U.S. was
headed into a recession at the time I redirected my career
path.)
For
my other readers who believe they truly are on the path of
right livelihood already, I gently invite you to look again.
What action have you not taken, what territory haven't
you entered simply because of fear? Please notice that
the fear is still there whether you take action or not. If
you have to be afraid anyway, wouldn't it be better to be
moving in the right direction?
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COMMENTS FROM OUR READERS
"I just wanted to thank you for a really insightful, timely and beautifully-written article
about the importance of earning one's living by being of service. I'm sure it will make a
profound difference to your readers. It certainly reminded me of what's important in my life
as I look for a full-time job while I build my own coaching practice."
— Life Coach, San Francisco, CA
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